August 30, 2001
There! Doesn't that sound sooo much nicer, sexier, well, hotter, than phone sex?? Anyway, AuralSex refers to so much more than two sweaty, overheated folks gasping over the phone...Being read aloud to, having naughty, filthy, disgusting suggestions whispered in one's ear, the playing of a particular CD that gets the ol' hormones racing...a certain sort of laugh or sigh. Never underestimate the power of your ears.
One of the biggest taboos in my marriage is the one involving phone calls at work and I adhere to it strictly, but yesterday a minor-emergency needed attention straightway and I broke that taboo. After we finished the details necessary to keep that minor dust-up manageable, I noticed certain responses to his voice as he laughed and teased me once or twice 'bout stuff and when I responded back in kind, there it was...his voice dropped a bit and started to have a hint of a certain type of huskiness that always gets my heart going faster. See, we were discussing Friday night and what he wants to do with it...nothing was said more suggestive than vague comments on having fun; it was the inflection he put on the word "fun" that spoke volumes to me, to us. And nobody knew but us.
A good portion of our dating days was spent way, way out in that no-man's land of partially developed, former farms and we had little or no access to even the more easily accessible forms of contraception and with all the miles involved in just getting together, the phone became a lifeline of sorts and a terrific way to get to really spend some time together and know each other. Of course, these days much more is at risk, what with the way everyone monitors phonecalls and everything, so I can't even bring our phone-sex days up, but it did get me to remembering.
Books To Read Aloud!!
The Velveteen Rabbit
Nine-A-Half Weeks With someone You love!!
Famous and not-so-Famous people it may be fun to have phone sex with 'cause their voices are so darn sexy!!
Billy Ray Cyrus
Tom Petty (of the Heartbreakers)
Anyof the members of DefLepryd
Jon Bon Jovi
Himself's suggestions: Angelina Jolie, LeeAnn Rimes, Helena Bonham Carter, Faith Hill, and Charlize Theron.
The truly neat thing 'bout aural sex is how you can paint word-pictures in your mind...custom made, just for you. There are times though, I suspect much of aural sex is almost subliminal, maybe even sort of a vibratory effects on the ear, heart and more interesting parts!!
I feel a poem coming on...
Upon Julia's Voice
So smooth, so sweet, so silv'ry is thy voice,
As could they hear, the Damned would make no noise,
But listen to thee (walking in thy chamber)
Melting melodious words to Lutes of Amber.