|Decoding His Sleep and Sex Positions|
January 24, 2008
Men who prefer missionary tend to do things by the book, making them faithful, loving boyfriends who won't let you down. If you like stability and tenderness, he's your match.
Men who like the closeness of side-by-side sex tend to need reassurance of a woman's feelings for them. This sexual stance provides a lot of intimacy, which would indicate that he's the sensitive and sweet type.
You'll always feel looked after by this confident, take-charge stud. Still, he can be standoffish at times. In this position, you can't make eye contact, so he won't feel like he's exposing himself emotionally.
According to a sex survey, 53 percent of men prefer this chick-in-charge pose. These playful guys are always looking to have a good time, but they still know how to be attentive. Pleasing you is a priority, which is why they prefer a position that best allows you to achieve orgasm.
A guy who drapes his arm across you is really easygoing, but he's also tuned in to your needs. Even though he's spent, he knows you probably crave post-sex contact, so he's making an effort to give that to you. The relaxed way he rests his arm on you shows he's comfortable with you and content in the relationship.
Cha-ching! You just hit the emotional jackpot. A stud who prefers to hold you against his neck wants more intimacy. He's literally pulling you into his most vulnerable spot -- the jugular. It's a strong sign of trust and affection. On the flip side, if he's cuddled against your crook, he's a passive dude who wants you to call all the shots.
If a guy rolls away or onto his back post-booty, you may be dealing with a commitmentphobe. Whenever you rotate your body 90 degrees from someone, you double the space between you. So he's cutting himself off from you and creating distance, both physically and emotionally. Extend a new bedmate some slack though -- he may just not know how to give you the closeness you desire.
Although this confident guy is clearly crazy about you, he also may be a bit possessive. How can you tell? In this dominant position, his body is enveloping yours -- he's literally all over you. On the other hand, if your man pushes into you so that you're curled up behind him, he's a little needy and wants to be taken care of by you.