|What we want|
November 9, 2020
I'm going to try and lay out what we want here... What we are looking for in a third partner. This way, if I lay it out, I'll know it better when I find it.
1. Someone who is dominant, male/female, it doesn't matter, but who doesn't like to micromanage. A person who knows that they have the ultimate power to decide but that they do not need to micromanage me. I think it is an honour to you if i surrender myself to you and give up my independence, but if you try to take it from me, you'll have a fight on youR hands.
2. Someone who is nurturing, loving and kind, but can be firm, imaginative and a disciplinarian when needed.
3. Someone who does not mind exploring things, whether kink or outside D/s, we need someone who is eager to learn and willing to constantly explore.
4. Someone who is tolerant of, or better yet, loves dogs. Animals have always been a part of my life and i can't imagine living my life without one or two dogs around at home.
5. Someone who is hard drug, STD/STI free and intends to stay that way.
6. Someone who would not mind exploring me being an alpha slave or dominant with other partners in future. These relationships might be sexual, or might not, depending on the decisions of my Masters/owners.
7. Someone who does not confuse independence with disobedience, having opinions with bratiness, etc. There's a time and a place to express opinions and ask questions, but in my opinion, a submissive should always have the right to possess opinions and ask questions.
8. Someone who likes bondage, is willing to help me grow my pain tolerance and someone who likes using toys in play.
9. Someone who wants to get to know me as a person first, then have the D/s stuff follow.
This is all we can think of for now.